I used to read the scriptures above and cringe. Taking up my cross daily seemed terribly unappealing and painful, and we humans try to avoid pain at all costs. However, as I studied these verses closely and considered what they mean to me personally, I discovered this is truly where freedom lies.
What does your cross look like? I think of my cross as something that is extremely difficult—just plain grueling—something that absolutely grinds away at my natural, old sinful nature. Humanly speaking, I am no match for it. Without God’s help, my cross will defeat me every single time. If I’m not “in step” with the Holy Spirit and “studied up” in God’s Word, I’ll veer off in the wrong direction, every single time. What about you? Can you carry your cross alone…without the help of Jesus?
The cross represents countless things. I don’t think we’ll fully comprehend its full significance until we finally reach our heavenly home and bow at the feet of our Savior. Only then will we realize all that He accomplished at Calvary on our behalf and ultimately for God’s glory.
Let’s look at some of the things the cross represents…
- Love
- Victory
- Salvation
- Freedom
- Eternal life
- Grace
- Mercy
Now, I must provide the following caveat: the cross is very painful to my human nature but oh so sweet to my new life in Christ because it aligns with His perfect will.
Through Christ living in me…
when I choose love instead of hate
mercy instead of revenge
grace instead of anger
selflessness instead of selfishness
freedom instead of bondage
…God is honored and the benefits are eternal.
Jesus knew we couldn’t carry our cross alone. When He spoke those words over 2000 years ago, He saw you…here…today. He knew precisely which cross He would ask you to bear, and He knew you would be able to victoriously carry it for Him, but only with His help. When He said “take up his cross daily, and follow me,” it was never His intention for us to solely go through life dragging our cross. He knows our frame; He knew the burden would be way too heavy for us frail humans. He knew we would need divine strength.
That’s why He also said, “Come unto me, all you that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
My sweet friend, if you have been trying to carry your cross alone, may I encourage you today to run to Jesus and request His help? May I remind you, as I remind myself, that our cross will ultimately be a blessing? It will lead us to victory. It will lead us to life. As we walk with Jesus daily, His Word strengthens us and His Spirit enables us to do what is otherwise humanly impossible. Come to Jesus, lean on Him, and He will give you rest.
I’d like to leave you with this song. Be encouraged and carry on!


















